The Unseen Efforts of Motherhood
There are days when the world rushes around you in a blur of responsibilities—lunches to pack, laundry to fold, stories to read—and somehow, you’re left wondering if anyone even notices. It’s not that you need applause or grand gestures, but sometimes, the silence feels overwhelming. And so, this letter is for you, the mum who feels unseen.
Acknowledging the Pain of Feeling Invisible
It’s okay to acknowledge that feeling invisible hurts. Your contributions, the whispered songs that soothe a restless child at 3 a.m., the way you hold everything together when the day falls apart, may go unnoticed to the outside world. But here’s the truth that often gets buried in the rush: you are noticed. Your presence is the heartbeat of your home, even if no one says it out loud.
You Are Seen and Valued
I see you. I see the way your eyes light up with love, even when exhaustion tries to dim them. I see how you carry the mental checklist of your family’s needs, never allowing a single detail to slip, even when your own needs are pushed aside. And though it may feel like your efforts are hidden in the fabric of everyday life, they are woven into your family’s story, shaping it in ways that only you can.
The Quiet Power of Your Love
The quiet resilience you show, the endless patience you muster on days that test your limits—these moments matter more than you know. You may not always hear the words of gratitude you deserve, but the impact you have is felt deeply. You are seen, you are valued, and your love is a force that holds more power than you can imagine.
Remember Your Light Shines Bright
So, on those days when you feel invisible, remember this: your love is a light that shines, even when it’s not recognised. You may feel unseen, but you are never forgotten. You are doing a beautiful, important job. And in the eyes of those little ones who depend on you, you are everything.
With Love,
A fellow mum x
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